Different strokes for different people, of course, but that kind of attitude *doesn't* come through in the books.
I don't consider it accurate outsider attitude as well, it *is* accurate for *some* outsiders, the kind I prefer to avoid.

My comment might have been confusing again (I really have to post about this) I meant that in the books the usage is correct, so she evidently understands, but, given what she posted (which I haven't read) she evidently misses the point.